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Euphemia Ojukwu's avatar

"People don't just hear what you said—they hear what they believe you meant."

That hit home!

Btw, I love your boyfriend already 😂😂 Intentional men are rare this days😅

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Olamide Ajasa's avatar

Thank you🤭

However, I didn't say there is an actual boyfriend 🌚😂.

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Bagbile Oluwasegun's avatar

The part where you said " And the pained singlets would have been rolling their eyes. Calling me ‘oversabi’, while secretly wishing their turn would come. " Is so true. ma'am

Others would be secretly jealous of the joy and happiness you have in sharing the story with them and they'll come up with words like " both you and your lover no get level.No matter how international he is, he could have gotten you something better " Meanwhile, most of them have not ever for one be treated that way in their either life of being in a relationship.

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Opuere Odu's avatar

This is so true. We have to be careful with how we express our thoughts. Many times, conflict arises from how a fact is communicated, rather than the fact itself.

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Olamide Ajasa's avatar

Exactly! That is very much true!

Thanks for reading, Excel😊

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Sincerely VKYZ's avatar

All na Narrative and Perspective

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Olamide Ajasa's avatar

Exactly oo

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